RESIST the urge to fall back into old patterns and habitual responses. Break old cycles. Understand that WE INHERIT OUR PARENTS AND ANCESTORS KARMA. You can give yourself the opportunity to break out of karmic loops when you respond and react differently than you or your ancestors would have in the past. You will be triggered by events that remind you of situations in your past. Pay attention to the recurring emotional themes from childhood that are present right now. Choose DIFFERENT THIS TIME. Change the story. Rewire the pattern. This is self-love in its highest form. It’s your soul’s way of rescuing YOURSELF. Re-parent yourself. These new choices will recover you and everyone else involved in those timelines so that everyone can dissolve these karmic knots and move forward in harmony and begin a new cycle … or have the courage let go and move on. In doing so, you’ve subconsciously decided to trade an old lense for a new more harmonious one. Your ancestors are jumping for joy as you listen and honor this work. Ask them for any signs/guidance you may need.

If you pay attention, you can connect the dots through experiences from the past year (and your entire lifetime) and see that you have been being guided to work on closing out major cycles from the past RECENTLY and your being guided to collapse old timelines that no longer serve where you are going and who you are becoming. You have a choice to hold on and suffer or let go and thrive. Be brave. Those refusing change are internally struggling. There is so much letting go happening right now… old identities, traits, stories, beliefs, traumas, fears, people, and places – letting go of the old will usher in the new. Things that you gripped so tightly onto, you are now ready to let go of and you are doing so with compassion + forgiveness + love for yourself and others. Intuitive guidance and blessings reach an all time high as you move out of the darkness/illusion and into the light/clarity.

You are beginning to understand that everything is always happening for you, not to you and that painful experiences and detours are blessings and redirections in disguise. Breakdowns are opportunities for growth. Suffering only happens when you resist the natural flow of life and the divinely orchestrated series of events. Things you thought were going wrong were in fact always going right. “Gods rejection is Gods protection” and life is always steering you towards your highest good. Trust that whatever is meant for you will always find you without a shadow of a doubt. What is meant for you will always stick around or will return in better timing. You don’t have to force, beg or control anything. What you chase out of place of lack, you will always repel.

Self-accountability is being highlighted – the only person who has ever hurt, rejected, or betrayed you, is you. Everyone is your mirror, showing you what needs healing inside you. Everything that happens to you in every moment is your teacher if you’d just listen.

Recognize that you are only a victim if you believe you are. You are responsible for everything in your reality. The only person who can give you happiness, peace, love, joy and purpose is yourself. The only one sabotaging you is the one looking back in the mirror.

Spring is in the air and there are no planets in retrograde. Some pressure has been taken off and you are trusting things are going to work out. You can feel the new seeds being planted. A new beginning is coming. Its a great time to clean the closet out and smudge the house and yourself. Check things off your to do list that stress you out and keep you from moving forward.

Your solar plexus is being upgraded. Yellow foods, crystals, clothing and citrus essential oils will be helpful. You may experience physical symptoms in this area like indigestion or heartburn. If you are finding balance in your solar plexus –  you will feel empowered, confident, secure, logical, motivated, determined, decisive, collaborative, compassionate, mature. If you are unbalanced in your Solar Plexus you will feel – entitled, righteous, competitive, not willing to be accountable, blameful, resentful, aggressive, immature, manipulative, egotistical, angry, aggressive, low self esteem, lack of energy + drive, poor digestion.

It’s time to be creative, motivated, powerful and purposeful. Stand in your power. Decide that you will never settle and you will never betray your heart again by not going after the life you truly want and need. Use your time wisely and spend it on those who inspire, support and lift you up. Figure out who the best version of yourself is and what it is that you want for your life. Stop making excuses or blaming external variables. Go after what you want and don’t stop until you get it. Life is only what you believe it to be.

Stop being your own bully or abuser. Be your own cheerleader. Be your own inner mother/father/partner. No more self-sacrificial energy. Time for boundaries once and for all. Only victims sacrifice themselves. Save your inner lamb. Putting yourself first is the ultimate goal. Stop enabling or rescuing others and allow them to stand in their power and gain the necessary tools they need in order to do better for themselves next time. Stop wasting your time on relationships that are not equal in vibration or supportive of your growth. Do so lovingly. Stop explaining yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Some people are not meant to be forever. See people for who they are. Accept them as they are instead of trying to change them into who you want them to be. Start finding people who are already ready to be in your life in the way you require them to be. Part of this might be making space for people who are more in vibrational alignment with your new path. People who understand you at your core. Those who truly see and hear you.  Those you can be authentic around and let your barrier down. Those who believe in you and cherish you. Prioritize those who leave you feeling better than they found you. Prioritize relationships who give AND take. Get rid of users who just take. Selfishness is a waste of your time. Notice toxic traits from the beginning. Relationships really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right or make someone wrong. We all see things differently. Be willing to see/hear into other perceptions and be willing to communicate your perception. A healthy relationship requires open, caring, honest, equal, loving, compassionate two-way communication. Without this there is no future relationship.

Please comment below about what resonates with you. I’d love to hear what you are working on.

XO Melanie